This random question thing and discussion took place around Valentines Day, a time when many people reflect on love and relationships. The holiday serves as a reminder of what truly matters in a partner, beyond the gifts and grand gestures. It was interesting to hear different perspectives from students across many ages and a couple of teachers on what makes a relationship meaningful ,especially when emotions and expectations are running high.                                                                                                                                           

So, when asked about the most important quality they value in a person, students and staff around Saint Francis High School had a range of responses. Ranging all the way from honesty  to someone who can put up with Chris Gerlach’s very bad golf game. Some highlighted humor, explaining that they want someone who can match their energy and bring fun into their lives. Others valued kindness and compassion, appreciating people who genuinely care for others . Loyalty was another key trait, with one person emphasizing the importance of trust in any relationship. Some looked for passion and commitment, admiring those who dedicate themselves fully to what they love. And, of course, personality played a huge role—many believed that being genuine and authentic was essential in forming real connections.

 While all these qualities are valuable, the ones that stand out the most to me in a significant other are communication skills and honesty. Without honest communication, a relationship can quickly fall apart, and no one wants that, at all. Being able to openly express thoughts, feelings, and concerns is crucial for building the trust and understanding in an relationship , but especially a relationship with the opposite gender. I believe that honesty creates a strong foundation, ensuring both people feel safe and respected in the relationship. That is absolutely key!!

Good communication skills go hand in hand with honesty. It’s not just about telling the truth, but also about being able to talk through problems, listen actively, and express emotions in a healthy, supporting way. A relationship where both partners can openly share their thoughts without fear of judgement or misinterpretation is one that has the best chance of lasting in the long run. Misunderstandings and the struggles that relationships go through on a day to day basis are completely normal, but with strong communication, they can be worked through rather than turning into bigger issues and then leading into a breakup. “Nobody wants that—especially during the season of love.

     Ultimately, while humor, kindness, loyalty, and especially being able to put up with Chris Gerlach’s bad golf game are all important to students and staff around St. Francis, I believe that without honesty and communication, a relationship cannot truly thrive on different levels and aspects. These two thriving qualities create a solid foundation for trust, respect, and growth—things that matter most in a significant other, especially on a day like Valentine’s Day when love is celebrated.